Abuse is any behaviour or action that is used to scare, harm, threaten, control or intimidate another person. It can come in different forms; physical, emotional, verbal, sexual, financial, or spiritual. If you are trying to decide whether or not a situation may be abusive, consider whether this person’s behaviours or actions have, as their main goal, the purpose of instilling fear in you or exerting control over you. If the person’s intention is to do any of the above, you may be at risk for abuse.
Abuse is defined as physical, emotional, psychological, stalking/harassment, sexual, financial, and/or threats of such abuse directed at a female by a person known to her in an attempt to control her. In this definition, control refers to an attempt on the abuser’s part to force a woman to comply with anything against her wishes. Woman abuse occurs regardless of socio-economic status, class, age, sexual orientation, occupation, mental health status, citizenship status, ability, spirituality practices, language, race, culture or ethnicity.
It is also recognized that in our society, violence against women is perpetrated predominantly, but not exclusively, by males against females. There are, however, female perpetrators of violence. Although the abuse may involve repeated episodes with increasing severity, it may also be a one-time occurrence causing physical or emotional injury that is detrimental to the woman’s well-being or that of her family.
Keep a checklist, if your partner exhibits behaviours like the ones listed below may be at risk of abuse:
Answering YES to any number of these questions may indicate that you are in an abusive relationship.
Includes any unwanted or forced sexual activity, including touching and intercourse. It also includes the possibility of exposure to sexually-transmitted diseases and/or pregnancy by denying the use of protection during intercourse, and forced exposure to, or participation in, pornography or prostitution. It also includes withholding sex and demeaning women sexually through jokes, and sexual accusations.
What to do if you are sexually abused:
Victims of abuse should go to the Domestic Abuse Sexual Assault Centre (DASA) at Mackenzie Health:
Visit Mackenzie Health (DASA) to learn more.
Source: The York Region Violence Against Women Coordinating Committee
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